You are the number one most important factor in your kid’s overall well-being.
You are the number one most important factor in your kid’s overall well-being.
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FREE EVENT | February 7, 2025 @12 pm PT (3 pm ET)
Caring for Neurodivergent Gender Diverse Youth: Tips for Parents, Caregivers, and Family Members
with A. Ning Zhou, MD
Dr. Zhou will provide an overview of neurodiversity and reframe autism and ADHD from a neurodiversity-affirming perspective. He will discuss the overlap of neurodivergence with gender diversity, as well as how standard screening and assessment tools often fail to identify autistic trans and nonbinary youth. He will share his clinical experience with managing co-occurring mental health conditions in neurodivergent gender diverse youth, as well as considerations for navigating the gender-affirmation process. Finally, he will offer tips and strategies on how to be more neurodiversity-affirming.
A. Ning Zhou, MD (he/him/他) is a child, adolescent, and adult psychiatrist at the San Francisco Department of Public Health (SFDPH) and in private-practice. He completed medical school at the University of Chicago Pritzker School of Medicine, psychiatry residency at the University of California, San Francisco (UCSF), and child & adolescent psychiatry fellowship at NewYork-Presbyterian/Columbia and Cornell Universities. At SFDPH, he works at a community clinic serving queer and trans youth, a primary care clinic, and a specialty mental health clinic. He co-facilitates a monthly gender consultation group aimed at increasing capacity to serve trans and gender diverse youth and their families at SFDPH.

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The Gender Journey
A Path For Parents From Confusion, Fear, And Doubt To Clarity And Confidence.
The gender journey for a parent follows a path that usually starts with a lot of fear and confusion. As you work your way through this first phase, which may involve some denial and bargaining, you find yourself squarely faced with the reality that your child is dealing with significant gender stuff and needs your help to navigate it. If in this process you realize your child is trans, non-binary, or gender expansive, you quickly set out on a quest to find accurate information about what to do to help your child and to figure out if this is even something you need to deal with…
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EXPLORE STORIES
Ongoing Story of a Kid’s Gender Journey – Part 11
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Ongoing Story of a Kid’s Gender Journey – Part 10
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Ongoing Story of a Kid’s Gender Journey – Part 9
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Ongoing Story of a Kid’s Gender Journey – Part 8
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